“It’s hard,” Real Housewives of Orange County alum Braunwyn Windham-Burke said, noting that her relationship with ex Victoria Brito was her “first long-term female relationship” since coming out Braunwyn Windham-Burke and girlfriend Victoria Brito have called it quits. The Real Housewives of Orange County alum, 44, and the model, 30, have broken up after nearly nine months of dating, …